"The Diagnosis" from I AM Curly Locks Blog
After a late night visit to the emergency in December, while pregnant
with my daughter Eliana, they told me that something was different about
my pregnancy. When doctor's say stuff like that, it puts you on edge.
I was completely frantic, and when I went to a follow up appointment
two weeks later and heard "the news," I was a complete mess. The tears
were flowin', emotions roarin', and I didn't really understand what was
going on. They referred me to the genetics department, which didn't
make the situation sound any better.
My meeting with genetics went a little something like this. Heartbeat,
heartbeat, thump-thump, thump-thump, heartdrop, tears, tears, and tears
as I was told that my daughter would have clubbed feet and, wait for
it, Spina Bifida. When this diagnosis came, it seemed like a death
sentence as they told me the options, "You are early enough in your
pregnancy, if you don't want to continue on with it. Termination is an
option as this will be hard on your fairly new marriage and your one
year old..."
I couldn't believe the words I was hearing. My mind raced, an unspoken
dialogue of heartbreak taking over my mind. I was put into one of the
most challenging experiences in my life, and you want to talk about "The
Option," which was no option for me.
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